Pondering Love

Next to the idea of God, love is probably the most expansive subject one could ponder. There are so many different types of love and so many different ways one could approach the subject. In fact, its probably the most overused and misunderstood word in the English language. And is there any other feeling that can bring so much joy and so much pain? So based on a song lyric, I've been thinking about the following...

If love is surrender
Then whose war is it anyway?

~Psychobabble, Frou Frou